My Perspective about Friendship, Love and Life

My Perspective about Friendship, Love and Life

I was browsing through my old posts from my "secret" blog somewhere. I realized that my driving force into blogging and writing is when I fall in love. It doesn't mean I have fallen in love now or heartbroken why I was writing this, but this is one of the articles I would surely love to post for those who haven't read it. Funny, but when I browsed through all the posts I've had, they occured when I was in the brink of either heartache or love bug. I love to write a lot. I missed that side of myself where I am drowned with my own thoughts. It's a great feeling when I can internalize everything that has been happening.. You give yourself a reality check of why things are happening, why things turned out the way they had and what are the best actions to make them better or let them stay as they are...

I would like to be able to write again. Before I even got to who I seem I was in the pictures sprawled out all over my Facebook account (finally me in a group of people) I was really an introverted, homebuddy who are more atuned to being with myself and being in my own element. I missed that side of me although I will still continue to be this outgoing girl I learned to be, because I did learn that life is too beautiful to sulk in the corner.

QUOTE 01: "Dance like nobody's watching. Love like it's never gonna hurt."

REFLECTION: When you truly love, we don't deprive the other person only a portion of that love more than you are capable of giving him just because you have to save the rest of it for yourself. In my case, I can only be happy when I know I've given the best of my love to that person. I have cried before but that was my choice but whether I have cried or not, nonetheless, I have tested my limits and loved without bounds.


QUOTE 02: "Truth is like the sun. You can shut it out for awhile but it will never go away."
REFLECTION: We shut our minds and rather believe in lies to avoid being hurt. But no matter what we do, we have to open our eyes and live with the truth. There's no better way but go on with our life with the reality ahead.


QUOTE 03: "Liking him was a chance but loving him and wanting to be with him forever is my choice."
REFELCTION: It can actually be similar to marriage. You don't marry a person because you love him. You marry because you want to commit yourself to the person you love. This explanation is shared to me by my Philosophy professor Mr. Rey Mancia. I agree with this otherwise I wouldn't share this.


QUOTE 04: "Each person who enters our lives has a unique lesson to teach us."

REFLECTION: We may never see some of those people whom we've spent a lot of times with in the past but the lessons they taught us will remain in us forever regardless of the fact that they might be the ones who hurt us.


QUOTE 05: "When someone breaks your heart it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that person will love you back. But don't turn back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings will make up for all the past hurts put together."

REFLECTION: This quotation is also supported by QUOTE 01. Don't stop living because someone stopped loving you. He's not the only man in the world. There are a lot of potential mate out there. But don't expect yourself to understand it right here and then when you're still in the process of healing. It takes time. Take it from me.



MY SELF-MADE QUOTES:

"Even the wisest man is misunderstood. No matter how wise and careful we are with our actions, someone will always think of them differently."

"Don't settle for less when you can have more but don't settle for more when you rob those who have less."